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Be Jane's Do-it-Yourself Wedding Anniversary Wish List

The traditional wedding anniversary list isn't quite fit for a Jane. If a Jane you know is about to celebrate her anniversary, check out the do-it-yourself version. If the Jane in question is you, pass the list along as a hint.

Anniversary

Traditional Gift

Be Jane Alternative Gift

First

Paper

Wallpaper

Before they drive each other up the wall, give 'em something to change the indoor scenery.

Second

Cotton

Fabric Upholstered Headboard

Two years of nights—need we say more?

Third

Leather

Faux Leather Walls

Even on the walls leather looks sexy.

Fourth

Appliances

Appliances

Who's going to turn down new appliances?

Fifth

Wood

Cabinetry

What better way to show off that wedding china?

Sixth

Iron

Pot Rack

Great for the couple with a lot of hang ups.

Seventh

Wool or Copper

Steel Wool

Perfect for buffing the seven year itch.

Eighth

Bronze or Pottery

Spackle and Putty Knife

Every relationship has its bumps and scratches; at least you can help to repair the ones in their wall.

Tenth

Tin

Tin Ceiling

Celebrate 10 years together with a brand-new ceiling. Romantic!

Eleventh

Steel

Stainless Steel Film

11 years together means they're strong as steel; give their appliances a look that's just as strong.

Twelfth

Silk or Linen

Drop Cloths

Help them protect what they've got.

Thirteenth

Lace

Window Treatment

A lacy window treatment will put romance back into the bedroom.

Fourteenth

Ivory

Marble Mantel

A gift as solid as their devotion. Besides, ivory is so 19th century.

Fifteenth

Crystal

Chandelier

Fifteen brilliant years together deserves a little elegance.

Twentieth

China

Super Adhesive>

Patching things up goes with the territory.

Twenty-Fifth

Silver

Luxury Showerhead

Putting a little pizzazz in the bathroom was never so easy.

Thirtieth

Pearls

Pearlescent Paint

Help them keep their walls and their love sparkling.

Thirty-Fifth

Coral

A Fountain and Pond

A romantic escape right in the backyard.

Fortieth

Ruby

Laser Level

A ruby-based laser will keep those anniversary photos on the straight and level.

Forty-Fifth

Sapphire

Blue Painter's Tape

Okay, maybe we'd opt for the sapphire instead?

Fiftieth

Gold

Opulent Golden Fixtures

Gilded fixtures for the Golden Couple.

Fifty-Fifth

Emerald

Compost Pile

A lifestyle that treads lightly on the earth together—that's romantic.

Sixtieth

Diamond

Diamond-Tip Drill

OK, now we've really stretched it. Maybe you take them out to dinner.

Originally published on bejane.com (Wayback snapshot). Revived 2026.